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"ผู้หญิงไทย" เป็นหัวข้อที่ถกกันมานานในอินเตอร์เน็ต
เริ่มด้วยคำถามตั้งแต่เมื่อสี่ปีก่อน ที่ว่า หญิงไทยเป็น
โสเภณีกันทุกคนจริงหรือ จนปัจจุบันแม้จะมีผู้ที่รู้จักและเข้าใจวัฒนธรรมไทยมากขึ้น
คำถามส่วนใหญ่ก็ยังคงเป็นในแนวเดิม
ผู้หญิงไทยทำอีท่าไหน
ถึงได้ตกเป็นหัวข้อสนทนา ประจำอินเตอร์เน็ต
เราก็ยังสงสัยกันอยู่ อาจจะเป็นเพราะว่า ผู้หญิงไทยเองมีส่วนร่วมค่อนข้างน้อยใน
การแสดงความคิดเห็น จึงทำให้ผู้รู้ทั้งหลายมีโอกาส
วิพากษ์วิจารณ์กัน ตามอัชฌาสัย ถ้าลองไปแอบฟังคำอธิบายลักษณะหญิงไทยใน
สายตาของผู้รู้แล้ว อาจเกิดอาการงง เพราะไม่ทราบท่านผู้รู้ทั้ง
หลาย ไปเก็บข้อมูลมาจากไหน บ้างก็ว่า
ผู้หญิงไทยอ่อนแอ รักสวยรักงาม เรียบร้อย สงบเสงี่ยม
ใจกว้าง เป็น แม่บ้านแม่เรือน บ้างก็ว่า ผู้หญิงไทย
เห็นแก่เงิน หลายใจ โกหกเก่ง
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ชาวสยามเวบท่านหนึ่ง
ตั้งข้อสังเกตว่า ความสับสนทั้งหมดเกิดจาก
การที่สื่อต่างประเทศทั้งหลาย เผยแพร่ ลักษณะหญิง
ไทยอย่างไม่เป็นกลาง ตัวอย่างที่ใกล้ตัว
ก็คงเป็น พวกหน้าบ้านทั้งหลายนี่เอง
คำว่าหญิงไทย มักจะพัวพันอยู่กับโฮมเพจ
ของบริษัทหาคู่ หรือไม่ก็ธุรกิจท่องเที่ยว
หน้าบ้านของชาวไทยเองก็มักจะนำเสนอผู้หญิงไทย
แต่ เฉพาะที่เป็นดาราหรือ นักร้อง ดังนั้นผู้หญิงไทยธรรมดา
ที่เป็นนักศึกษา คนทำงาน และ แม่ บ้าน จึงกลายเป็นชนส่วนน้อยของประเทศไทย
ฟังชาวสยามเวบท่านนั้นติงแล้ว รู้สึกว่าเห็นดีด้วยที่
สยามเวบจะ พยายามลดความเป็น Highway of misinformation ของอินเตอร์เน็ตลง
โดยการรวบรวม หน้าบ้านโดย ผู้หญิงไทยหลากความสามารถ
เพื่อเป็นการประกาศกันโต้งๆ ว่า ผู้หญิงไทยไม่ใช่
อย่างที่ใครๆเขาว่ากัน ผู้หญิง ไทยแต่ละคน
ล้วนมีบุคลิกแต่งต่าง กันไป จะมาสรุปกันง่ายๆ
ว่าผู้หญิง ไทยทุกคน เป็นอย่างนั้น อย่างนี้ คง
ไม่ได้ แต่ที่แน่ๆ คือ หญิงไทย มีความสามารถหลายด้านนะคะ
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"Most
Thai women that I know are ...[fill in your favourite label]."
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How many times have Thai women
been misrepresented on the Internet? Well, I've lost count. Recently,
a Siamwebler got fed up with the stereotyping of Thai women. She
suggested that we should give a balanced view of who Thai women
really are.
Who are Thai women, anyway?
A Penpal club (which sells Thai women's addresses) describes Thai
women as committed house-wives. A bitter spouse says Thai women
are greedy, narrow-minded, promiscuous and dishonest. A bar-goer
views Thai women as hot and sexy. An image-conscious Thai portrays
Thai women as intelligent and conservative. A homepage presenting
Thai models/singers/actresses reinforces the belief that Thai women
are beautiful.
Well, I am a Thai women and
most Thai women I know don't fit into any of the labels.
There are a broad spectrum of Thai women who differ in beliefs,
tradition, education, financial situation and values. It is an oversimplification
to assume that thirty million Thai women belong to any particular
category.
An article in a recent bestseller
book written for Thai students abroad makes similar blanket statements
about women of other nationalities; Japanese women are [...], Indonesian
women are [...] .
Why is there a need for these
assumptions? Perhaps, there is a psychological explanation. Perhaps
it is simple ignorance. If we want to stop the stereotyping of Thai
women, we should also be fair to women of other nationalities.
As Nicholas Negroponte mentioned
in his book, "Being Digital", the notion of "nation" will someday
be obsolete. Siamweb would like to help speed up this process by
diluting the steoreotyping of Thai women. We present you with homepages
by three genuine Thai women.
In this 'Thai women cool pages',
their homepages will speak for themselves. Hopefully, this will
lead to a broader view of Thai women.
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หน้าบ้านแรกที่จะนำเสนอวันนี้ คือ หน้าบ้านของคุณ สุพรรณิกา รองโสภา ผู้มีความสนใจทั้งทางด้านศิลปะ
วัฒนธรรม ประวัติศาสตร์ โดยที่ตัวเธอเอง ศึกษาอยู่ในระดับ
ปริญญาตรี ที่ Univerisity of Maryland ในภาควิชา Computer Science and
Electrical Engineering Department ดูหน้าบ้านและอ่านกลอนของเธอแล้ว
อย่าลืมส่งจดหมายไปให้กำลังใจเธอในการสอบ
ด้วยนะคะ
Our first selection is Khun
Supannika's Homepage which is by
far one of the most impressive personal homepages by any Thai. She
started out with a dedication to Jitr Pumisak and gathered more
interesting cultural and historical information along the way. If
you like her homepage and poetry, don't forget to write her. BTW,
Siamweb wish her luck in her exams.
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หน้าบ้านที่สอง
เป็นของคุณ
ชื่นจิต เปรมใจชื่น เธอบอกว่าเธอ ฝันไว้ลอยๆ
ให้โลกชุ่มฉ่ำไปด้วยสันติ ในฐานะสมาชิกของกลุ่ม
ศิลปะและวัฒนธรรมกระจกเงา เธอรับผิดชอบในส่วน
งานบทละคร กำกับการแสดง และแสดงละคร
แต่ละครของเธอมิใช่ ละครน้ำเน่าหลังข่าว
แต่เป็นละครสอนชีวิต ที่นำเสนอให้แก่
นักเรียน และ คนหนุ่มสาว
The next homepage is by
Chuanjit Pramjichuan She works in a art and cultural group called
The mirror. Her
resposibility includes writing, directing and acting in plays that
address social issues, i.e., AIDS, democracy, etc. The play troop
goes around the country to promote social awareness. In her homepage
she mentions that her other interests includes poetry and woodworks.
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บุคคลในข่าว
คนที่สามของเรา คือ คุณพี่ บุษกร สุริยสาร หรือคุณอ๊อด คุณอ๊อดเป็นผู้ช่ำชองทางด้าน
การสื่อสาร และโทรคมนาคม หน้าบ้านของ เธอมีสีสรรค์และลวดลายแพรวพราว
นำเสนอเนื้อ หา แบบสนุกสนานอย่างมีสาระทำให้
สยามเวบอดไม่ได้ที่จะยกให้หน้า
บ้านนี้เป็นหนึ่ง Thai women's cool homepage
The next cool
homepage by a Thai lady is Khun 'Od' Busakorn
Suriyasarn's. Khun od says that she is a little embarassed since
the homepage is kinda outdated. She hopes to update it soon. Her
idea of a cool homepage is a homepage with goodies that doesn't
too long to load. (We all can relate to that). Her htmling started
out with her wanting to know a little something about electronic
publishing. Currently Ph.D. candidate in Telecommunication and a
part-time SCTer (more of a lurker), she is particularly interested
in Thailand's Internet development and policy making as well as
many atheletic activities. She claims she resembles Lisa Simpson
with a better hairdo. Well, one has to see to believe. :)
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Thank you for your comment and suggestions.
The comments have been accumulating so we had to move it to other page.
We have to remove alot of the irrelavant posts from the forum post below.
We don't mean to 'sensor' your opinion, un-cut set of previous
posts are here. Please realized that this is not a chat forum for
expressing desire for a relationship and/or sexual desires. We have another
section for you to do that.
Content
: Yujira
Design : Putt
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| Your comments |
| hello...i am frustrated this negative
ideals of Thai women are still prevelant on this site when it fact this
site is to discuss issues in relative to being thai and be mistaken She
is not some china doll or prostitute or something that you can blindly thing
she has no value she has worth and value because she is a human being with
aspirations of being anything she wants to become. she shouldn't be inhibited
because of what some of these people keep typing in. so ...remember what
have you learned. Thai Women are independent feminists who should be idealized
as a human being not some sexual object |
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from cpc-34.cpc.csupomona.edu on Friday, August 13, 1999 at 11:45:56 |
| Dear Ning Samuntprakarin! You must
always be proud because you are a Thai woman! Take care of your culture
- be you self - make good food - make good love - smile and always think
that Thailand and the people of this country have learned that we are a
smiling people. What you canดt do today you can do tomorrow. Remember that
many Farrangs go to thailand to find a wife - they never go to Japan, China,
Laos or HongKong. Your husband must be proud because he is married with
a thai girl. I wiss you the best for the rest of your life - Good belss
you both and good luck in your mariage!! |
| Lamphun
from ti34a62-0368.dialup.online.no on Tuesday, July 13, 1999 at 15:25:26 |
| Ning Samutprakarn-I come from a situation
that is similar to the one you will soon enter. My mother is Thai and she
married an American. They resituated themselves in America and have been
married for 25 years. What I've learned from their marriage and I think
is important in a marriage of different cultures is to be understanding
of each other. Some of the difficulites they encountered were due to the
different ways of life each had lived til they met. It is very important
that both cultures (especially when children come into your lives) be preserved.
I wish you the best for your new life! |
| sush-ee
from cs9339-212.austin.rr.com on Friday, July 09, 1999 at 06:41:21 |
| I am a 27 year old Thai girl from
Bangkok who just arrived to Danmark getting married in July with a wonderful
man who is 28 years older than me. But he look very young and make me feel
like a real woman in every way. Is there anybody out there - both Thai women
who have done the same as me - and Europeen men who have the same experince
- which can give me and my husband Jens some good advice for our coming
life. We are very in love and we hope to live together till we die. I have
no children and my husbands is now 25 and 21 and they have left their home.
We speak very good English together and in August I start to school learning
to speak Dansih. Hope to hear from many of you soon! |
| Ning
Samutprakarn <phiphi@online.no>
from ti34a64-0370.dialup.online.no on Tuesday, June 29, 1999 at 04:56:10 |
| I don't why the hell is everybody
so worried about the thai girls!!! Why should they care about what the west
think about them!!! If everybody thinks they are a bunch of hookers, the
hell with them. It's the reality not what someone says or thinks that will
change the reality. The reality is tha they are womem like many others with
good and bad things, nothing more. And this history of them come here to
work as hookers and been exploited, come on they must grow and are not inocents.
They should know that outside their country everything can happen and in
the the west, if is that what they think, there is no heaven. Here there
good and bad like in all the world and I don't think that coming here anybody
is gona get rich. In CEE there is at least 50 million miserables and the
U.S... come on don't think the U.S is what you see on the movies. There
more misery there than in some places in africa, and if you think that is
a lie just go to the outskirts of chicago or L.A. |
| niko
<niko@demos.com> from 193.136.16.204
on Saturday, June 12, 1999 at 01:39:27 |
| The problem of prostitution is a
prblem worldwide. But most of FARANGs listening "Thailand" are thinking
of cheap "pussies". This people are nutty. They think Thailand is "SEXLAND"...
This people are animals who thinkig with their cocks... But there is another
problem too. What do you think about Thai-Women go to Europe? 70-80% of
them are "working" in a brothel. In Europe you can earn more money for saling
sex as in Thailand. That's a dream. I had experiences by methods of peoples
managing brothels. They wanted to got my wife for them advantages. She comes
from Thailand. I stopped them and started a divorce. Some people wanted
to "clean me up", because my divorcing stopped the visa of my wife (they
can't get money of her). I had many problems and tried to work together
with police in my country. I think I did the best for my wife that she had
to leave my country. Now, I know many Thai Women - women who do normal work
and prostitutes. I don't know any Thai woman who will go with "big money"
back to Thailand. Most of them will "kick out" (cancel visa) by government.
Tell me, why come Thai Women to Europe and working in brothel here? I'm
trying to fight against this way of prostitution of Thailand-Women. I stayed
five times in two years in Thailand and I have many Thai-friends there.
They love me, 'cause I'm talking what I'm thinking. At moment I have a Thai-girlfriend.
She lives in Thailand. She's clever. She visiting highschool and I said
to her that she must learn, learn, learn... That's the first way of a solution:
Learning and education! The government in Thailand and you have to find
solutions. "Mai khid maag, mai phuud maag. Tham tham tham..." |
| GOB
<gob@01019freenet.de> from
dtm2-tuy.atm-bb.de on Wednesday, June 02, 1999 at 19:19:02 |
| The sex industry exists in almost
every country. The USA allows certain cities to legalize prostitution (e.g.
Las Vegas). Japan, Hong Kong, Taiwan, Korea and the Philippines also have
large sex industries. The real issue is the personification of the Asian
female -- not just the Thai female. To only focus on the aspects for Thai
women is missing the point. Search the internet for 'Asian women' and you'll
be bombarded with stereotypes of sexy subservant women. Las Vegas in America
has a certain image. However, not everyone in Las Vegas fits that profile...
just as not every Asian female fits the stereotype that is portrayed by
the media. |
| Marc
<webmaster@chopsticks.com>
from 209-30-241-231.flash.net on Saturday, May 22, 1999 at 12:19:35 |
| I am currently a Thai woman studying
at san Francisco state University. I am doing a research project dealing
with the images of women in the Thai media. Needless to say I am having
trouble finding information due to lack of previous articles on this subject.
I would appreciate it if anybody could give me some input on this matter.
I'm looking for thoughts and opinions from Thai women and anyone who has
thoughts on this subject and if anyone could direct me to some other research
on this matter, it would be great. Thank you. Jasmin. |
| Jasmin
Vorabutr <pvephula@sprintmail.com>
from 1cust251.tnt2.sfo3.da.uu.net on Saturday, May 15, 1999 at 01:30:19 |
| If you smile to the world - the world
will smile to you. Thats what Thai people understand. Make love - nor war
and take care. Eat good food and enjoy life! |
| Oliver
Datoom from ti34a65-0015.dialup.online.no on Friday, May 07, 1999
at 14:32:45 |
| This is an interesting site. What
a wide variety of interests and takes on so many issues. Well, I'd like
to state my own. I myself am Thai and very proud of my culture. However,
I realize the stereotypes that are present about Thai women in the Western
media. I find it shocking and extremely disturbing. I'm not sure who first
conjured up the image of Thai females as sex objects, but if you have ever
met a true Thai woman you would realize that she is like any other woman.
Her personality, attractiveness and intelligence will vary women of all
races. Don't judge us by our nationality, a person's character is defined
by much more than that. |
| Jen
<jjy@gwu.edu> from 128.164.205.152
on Friday, April 30, 1999 at 08:58:01 |
| I am from Colombia south America.
I have lived in the usa for the last 20 years. I am 38 years old. I have
met a thai girl a month ago here in florida. Since I met her I have been
the happiest ever in my life. she is the most tender and sincere and gentle
and kind person I have ever met. I am so deep in love with her, and I hope
to spend the rest of my life with her. Thai women are like any other women
in any other race or country. They are human beings. Like in any country
there are good people or bad people, This lady is a great lady like there
are many in any culture. It is a great mistake to label women or men of
any race in any way. I feel the luckiest man on Earth to have met Sandy,
I will treat her with respect and lots of love. I will love her forever,
she is a lady no matter if she is Thai or Colombian or American or Mexican
or whatever, Sandy is a lady. How fortunate I am to have met her and it
just happen that Sandy is from thailand. |
| Luis
<lfl123@yahoo.com> from gate-omega.pbc.adelphia.net
on Wednesday, March 17, 1999 at 10:20:17 |
| I see alot of "Farang-Bashing" in
the previous letters, and feel compelled to respond. Yes, it is wrong to
go to a foreign country (ANY foreign country) and behave like a baboon in
a banana factory but the fact remains that, for the most part, it is the
Thais who must take responsibility for what occurs within the confines of
their borders. How can you put a sign on your door that says "Free Pussy",
and not expect the lowest common denominators of the human race to beat
a path to it? Tourism (including the "sex trade") is your biggest industry.
If you shut-down the sex trade you alienate a large (largest?) segment of
the tourist population, so what do you do? STOP having so many goddamn babies.
THAT is what you do. Curbing population growth will not only spur economic
recovery, there will be far less thai kids who will have to grow up with
an endless stream of "farang" penis' dangling in their faces. On the other
hand, you could just wait for STD's and AIDS to do it for you. Your government
(like ours in America) is a joke. Why don't you do something about it? Who
needs a King when the people suffer? Get rid of your monarchy and put the
money into social programs like SEX EDUCATION. I've known thousands of thais
who came from the lower class. All they ever needed was a chance to be educated,
but how will they get that chance in a society that squanders its money
on a royal family? I mean c'mon, it's not like you've got the economic power
of England or other European nations. Think I'm being unfair? Far from it.
I just think people should take ownership of their problems. Stop whining
and DO SOMETHING! |
| John
Sherwood <jsherwood@synermark.com>
from auscom1.synermark.com on Tuesday, February 23, 1999 at 03:00:07 |
| It has already been 1 year since
I last visited this homepage. It's not a big surprise to me to find out
that there are still many messages coming in wanting to contact Thai girls.
Those who are asking for the better attitudes toward Thai girls please don't
be upset. It's not that easy to change the bad attitudes and the myths about
Thai women. There is one thing we can do, expressing your opinions and show
"those" who are still blind what we "think", please speak out loud that
Thai women are not toys but we are " human beings" ! |
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<busayagornt.hotmail.com>
from 203.154.19.132 on Sunday, February 21, 1999 at 18:38:29 |
| To people outside Thailand! I am
a Thai girl - 26 year and I have worked at a bar at Nana Plaza in Bangkok
in two years ago. I have been with many farrangs from Europe and American
and many of this man ask me how Thai lady can slept with so many man. And
I say to them that nobody thai lady want to have sexual with many man. Anf
this is not to mean that we who are working at a bar like to impress every
body. Many Thai Ladies have done it because we need money to support our
family. So we might to be patient. And some time we was impress if some
one if we have with a man for a long time.. I think all the Thai Ladies
working at the bars at Patpong, Soi Cowboy and Nana Plaza in Bangkok were
understanding each other and can say that they never felt any speciel with
their customers. The most farrangs are very bad lovers, they are fat and
may of they smell no good. Sometime a Thai lady find a man when she felt
specially for. But not so often because a real thai lady can not love every
man. That is why so many Thai ladies is selling their bodies and sexual.
I hope all who is reading this is understanding what I am writing, because
so many farrangs come drunk to the bars and do not understand anything what
the girls is working there is thinking and what they want. In this two years
I was working at the bar I get horny just two times. And one man is now
my husband. The first time we met we have wonderful sexual at his hotel
and he make me come many times this night and he was very kind and very
handsome and unlike all others mas from Europe. So often want to come and
then go to sleep. But ther is not only Thai ladies selling there bodies
and sexual. irl whom is come from different country selling their body too.
Every country has a whore but people will know or not is up to that country
will disclose or not. There are many people visits Thailand and the thais
have not disclose any thing.So many people wrote about Thailand like that.
Many girls whom is working on the bars come from poor familly in the country
in Thailand and in Laos and now also in the Cambodia. They all have do their
job because we wont to alive in this world. But all this ladies and girls
have heart and soul too. So if you think to go to thailand and buy a lady
for a night or a week you will get the best sexual experince in your life,
but you must think that is not easy to make love to a man you do not love.
So we are playing with you and think that many of you farrang are reaalu
stupid. So we love your money but not your body. We always wont to get finished
and go home from your hotel room. Be proud all Thai Ladies - many mans have
right when they say that we are the most beatiful, warm and sexy woman in
the world! |
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Before "Lemon" - now Mrs. Clerks from jung.ti.telenor.net on Saturday,
February 20, 1999 at 05:00:25 |
| Sawadee Yes, this is an interesting
site, but it still full of much sterotyping,by both men and women as well
as asian and non-asians.I have had the pleasure to be able to travel to
many if not all asian countries and most recently I was in Thailand,Vietnam,Indonesia,Singapore
and Japan (Nov '98). This year I am looking towards Cambodia, laos and of
course Thailand. I have spent time in Asia during wars and peace and have
found the asian woman a rather interesting combination of self-reliance,
independence, knowledge, sincerety and consideration. There are those as
there is in any race or nationality that are less then desirable, but I
have found that asians as a rule will return a %1000 for my efforts. One
should also note that it is not just the all-to-often pushy and loud farangs
that treat Thai women as sex objects but also the Thai male that helps spread
some of the worst STD problems in the world. I very much dislike the idea
of 'sex trips' from western countries to Thailand but I also find distasteful
the idea of 'pimps' buying young, very young girls from parents in the north
of Thailand to work in the sex trade down in Bangkok, and this is primarly
for Thai men. I started my involvement with Thailand in the '60s and it
continues to this day. I tend to favor Thai and Vietnamese women but consider
all women to be of special quality and perhaps more so if compared to men.
I believe men can be capable of both strengh AND sensitivity but both of
these traits are not incouraged in many cultures.All women have special
traits and abilities, as do many men, and I give them that credit. My preferences
are based upon my long time dealings in many parts of the world and not
just asia.I am a white American and I have many Thai women friends that
I call often as well as Vietnamese. The only way that I know how to treat
them is with respect and consideration. I always try to remember birthdays
and special holidays (Lunar New Year-Tet and Thai New Year) and pay attention
to families and always to older Mothers and Fathers. There is a lot more
that could be written but I think all get the idea. There are farangs that
are real problem guys, and the same can be said for non-farangs.Yes, Thai
women can be very sexy but so can others and that asspect is not everything,
and certainly not the reason to by a round-trip-ticket. And I love the smell
of the jungle in the mountains of the north of Thailand just after a good
rain - - - and the skin is so smooth. Ah the delightful Thai people, and
of course a wonderful King and his family.My life has been enhanced because
of knowing Thais and that of course includes Thai women. Keep fighting the
good fight and perhaps some day us men will all realize what women perhaps
already know. My best to all as it is time for a phone call to a friend
getting of from work in BKK. Bye |
| H.Morgan
Yancey <thaiviet@earthlink.net>
from 1cust70.tnt14.lax3.da.uu.net on Thursday, February 11, 1999 at
16:05:27 |
| Hello, I'm a Swiss guy, 33 of age
and I had the honour to spend my holidays together with my brother in your
country this November. For us, it was our first trip to Thailand. We stayed
near Pattaya (Jomtien) and, according what we heard in our country about
Pattaya, we expected something like sink of iniquity. But we were very surprised
in a very positive way. There we got known to quite a lot of Thai women
who were earning their lifes as salesperson in shops, working in bars or
in other professions. One thing we learnt in your country is, that there
is some difference between the women in my country and the Thai women. We
hardly met women with such a positive mind even with all the economical
problems they're confronted with. Most of them are hard working and serious
young women earning the money for wohle families. How they manage their
life and to keep smiling in the same time: RESPECT, I say. Most Eouropean
women I know never would be so strong. Also the calmness and tolerance Thai
ladies proofed when some rude European tourists tried to molest them was
appealing (we weren't as calm in such situation - because we were quite
ashamed to be farangs then!). I agree that there are really beautiful Thai
ladies, but behind every person you find a very interesting personality,
formed by education, culture, life experience and life style and so on.
And that's what makes a person interesting. For me as well as my brother
- we surely want to know more about Thailand and Thai people. We will surely
return. If somebody likes to write to me and exchange some information,
your welcome. To the Thai ladies: if you're pestered by such farangs who
don't respect you as a person, just let them down (best without smile because
thei're too primitive to understand a polite rejection). |
| Marcel
<chaes@yahoo.com> from 194.209.165.138
on Wednesday, December 17, 1997 at 22:06:23 |
| I'd like to be your friends. Please
send me your massages as soon as possible. I through Thai girls are nice
, helpful and smile. I like them. Thank you... |
| Fai
<saguanmo@health.moph.go.th>
from health.moph.go.th on Monday, December 01, 1997 at 14:39:26 |
| Each of the Thai women linked at
your site are terrific examples that we all should strive to develop our
imagination, creativity, humor, and intellect throughout each of our lifetimes!!!
Bravo to you all! |
| Alan
<ASTEINB@AOL.COM> from ww-tg04.proxy.aol.com
on Sunday, November 30, 1997 at 06:38:04 |
| While searching the Internet for
information about installing Thai Fonts in my browser, one of the many links
included your site. Finding your Website was accidental, however very pleasant!
I must agree that if stereotyping of any group of individuals is to be stopped,
it will have to be an effort made with an international perspective. After
all, whether an individual may be speaking of a male or female, how many
times have we heard of Americans being considered as "loud and brash"? Or,
how about Latinos being "good" lovers; or, the English as being very "proper"?
I am afraid that the world in which we live today is becoming ever more
influenced by images of what is supposed to be the truth rather than actuality.
What creates the conditions which make people think in one manner or another
about complete strangers? Is it ignorance; meaning lack of education? Or
is it just intolerance? Could it be more the case of mass media focusing
on the more profitable and sensational? For myself, I really could not say.
However, what I can say is that you have provided three good examples for
all nationalities and genders to follow! Each of the Thai women linked at
your site are terrific examples that we all should strive to develop our
imagination, creativity, humor, and intellect throughout each of our lifetimes!!!
Bravo to you all! |
|
from ww-tg04.proxy.aol.com on Sunday, November 30, 1997 at 06:33:54 |
| I'm the one of Thai woman. I don't
really agree that most farang like to think about only sex and prostitude
in Thailand. Not all women are prostitude or be able to buy them. I got
the experience by myself when I tried to help the one farang tourist he
could not speak much English. At last, he did't even say Thank you me, but
he called me to come with him in Tuk-Tuk for a few times. I got so upset,
I'm not a 'PROSTITUDE'. How come did he think all Thai woman on the road
are prostitude? It's bad thing they treat the helpful Thai women! he |
| Tonnie
<gal_nice@hotmail.com>
from tee.samart.co.th on Sunday, November 23, 1997 at 13:57:45 |
| This website was a pleasant discovery.
Any thinking person who has visited or worked in Thailand or known Thais
abroad understands that Thai women are as diverse as anywhere. Unfortunately,
most people would like to think that there is an El Dorado somewhere in
the world where their preferred qualities abound (Sweden in the 1970s; Thailand
in the 1990s). It takes a great deal of contact with real people (especially
in the 2-D world of cyberspace) to dispel these myths. I look forward to
reading on. |
| brian
<bripearce@aol.com> from
ww-tr01.proxy.aol.com on Wednesday, November 05, 1997 at 10:40:04 |
| Very interesting and intelligent
site! I feel ashamed by the behaviour of the majority of Western men towards
Thai ladies. It falls back to all of us (the Western Men), just like Patpong
and Pattaya falls back to Thai Ladies (in the opinion of the low class tourists).
We should not worry too much about all these idiots...just ignore them,
as there are hopefully enough educated people around here to talk to. |
| Uwe
<stobbe@cymes.de> from bayer3.bayer-ag.de
on Wednesday, October 22, 1997 at 19:37:37 |
| Well,i am also realy mad at the fact
that thai women are depicted as prostitutes .F.Y.I (for your information)
I'm 25 a years old french man, I have spent a lot of time in thailand and
I just love the country and its people.in fact my brother is maried with
a thai lady since 6 years. when I come to bkk I often go to patpong, and
bielive it or not, it is not for the sex business.when i go there it is
to meet people (farangs and thais)since the time I go there (6 years already)
I met a lot of people and a lot of "semimondaines" with which I always take
time to talk with about their life and why they they work in bars. the most
common answer is : -"I used to be a cashier in the Robinson department store
but I was paid only 2800 bath a month..since i work in patpong I get 5000
bath a month and even more if i get a boyfriend!" the only thing I would
say is that many people criticize those girls but if Myself IF I was born
in Thailand in a poor familly I would be working in patpong .some peeople
say that these girls are low life whores but in their style they are princesses
who enlight the life of LOW LIFE MENS! these girls are not to ban but only
our money powered society and the big bosses who rules it any comment will
be appreciated. KEEP YOU POSTED |
| erwan
<sabai@magic.fr> from dallas.magic.fr
on Monday, October 06, 1997 at 11:01:43 |
| It's nice to see a positive website
dedicated to Thai women.You are correct by stating the farongs have stereotyped
Thai women.It was funny to read your comment about Patpong because they
seem to show that particular slice of life often here in America.Khun jai
dee thai lady. |
| rob
<rgol@earthlink.com.> from
pool043-max5.canoga-ca-us.dialup.earthlink.net on Saturday, October 04,
1997 at 13:18:55 |
| I'm a Thai Woman who has been living
in HKG for 7 years. I think I have seen enough of the image of Thailand
from Farang Media point of view. I mean every time there were articles or
any programs on T.V about Thailand. It almost always start with these girls
dancing in PATPONG or showing how filthy our slums are. I think it's not
fair!!!I mean I'm not denying that those things are real but it doesn't
represent the whole country. We have a lot of beautiful sites and our WOMEN
ARE NOT ALL PROSTITUTES !@! I'm sick and tired of seeing and reading about
those kind of stories about THAILAND..MY MESSAGE FOR YOU MEDIA OUTTHERE
IS PLEASE BE CREATIVE!!! SHOW PEOPLE OUT THERE THE OTHER SIDE OF THAILAND
THE BEAUTIFUL INTERESTING SIDE AND IF YOU COULD , SHOW THE WORLD HOW THAI
WOMEN ARE JUST LIKE WOMEN IN ANY OTHER COUNTRIES WE LIVE, STYDY, WORK AND
CONTRIBUTE TO OUR COUNTRY JUST LIKE MEN!!gET THE PEOPLE OUTHERE EDUCATED
AND CHANGE THEIR PERSPECTIVE ABOUT THAILAND AND THAI WOMEN... |
| Gaew
<okarane@ibm.net> from slip202-135-89-82.hk.hk.ibm.net
on Friday, October 03, 1997 at 09:03:05 |
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I look for no one, I close my blind
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